To interfere? Or to not interfere?

[Ipomoea alba]

I had a few vivid dreams, the kind where I was completely disturbed, and I knew that they were trying to tell me something. Sometimes my dreams are just dreams, but these few times I knew something was up. I could guess what it meant, and it was bad, but I ran the details over with my non-believer roommates, and they tried to convince me that it was just a dream and my subconscious was just trying to help me get over some traumatic events that occurred in my past. I ended up going to the tarot card reader in my area, who I am certain has special gifts, and she also acknowledges that I too can sense things. She confirmed that the dreams I were having were telling me that a girl was not good for someone I cared deeply about, but who's life I wasn't in anymore. She told me I was having the dreams because I was right that the girl was no good.

I have not spoken up about it to anyone. I also do not dream in the same intensity as before about the situation. I don't plan to interfere either, because I figure it's not any of my business. Also, I have the terror, that I'm completely wrong, and I'd be raising the red flag over nothing.

Yet, in the back of my mind, I wonder if I'm doing the right thing. Why is it me who is having these dreams, when I'm not even in the picture? Am I supposed to keep this upsetting knowledge to myself just to eat at me until things finally do go wrong?

When you have a dream that is telling you something, that doesn't have much to do with you, what do you do? Also, I don't understand why I was the one dreaming of it, why not someone more relevant, you know?

Thanks for any insight!!

[Traumwandlerin]

It's a lot easier to discuss your dreams if you actually write them down for us. And if you have already an interpretation write this down, too. Without context, there isn't anything we can do, cause everything is possible in the first place.

[Kitty]

I believe that you're probably having these dreams for a reason, it could be as a warning or it could be because there are ways for you to help, I agree with Traumwandlerin - it would be useful to know a bit more