Hello

[Joanna87]

My name is Joanna87.
Just thought I'd drop in and say hi.
I'm new to this site so i'm up for any suggestions and advice.

A little about me.... I'm a 30 year old mother and wife.
Husband and I are separated right now but its all ok I guess.
I do me and he does him.
I love to write poetry, listen to music and color with my 9 and 7 year old.
And I love to go storm chasing.

I have 3 cats... Rebel, Spells and Sophie.

[SpiritTalker]

Hi and welcome. Feel free to ask questions whenever you like.

[Joanna87]

I do have several questions....

Question 1) I want to do a "reap what you sow spell".
I wrote one but am unsure what all I need to do it.
I was told that if I had a picture of her it would work better!
Is this true?

Question 2) I am also unsure as to what color candle or candles to use.
I have white candles is that ok?
I was told that white candles are the most commonly used because they symbolize all of the colors.
Is this true too?

Now I don't want to curse this person, but I do want her to feel all the pain she has caused me, my family and friends over the years.
This person really gets off on hurting people and wrecking homes and marriages.
She's in my marriage now as we speak.
She's a liar and a manipulator and has been for years.... she is the type of person that fucks over you and than runs and hides so you can't confront her or she has people fight her battles for her.
She enjoys turning people against one another and yes she has done this with my husband. She purposely took herself off her birth control to get pregnant to trap my husband into staying with her. And sadly he fell for it.

I will take any and all suggestions and advice thanks!

[planewalker]

Greetings Gentle Being,

First, I hope you find the answers you are pursuing. There are two thoughts about color. In art, if you combine all the colors you get black and the absence of color is white. In science, it is just the opposite. I've found that intent and focus are the most important part of the Craft. I'm going to PM you. May your path untangle and your step be sure and light.

Planewalker

[Lord_of_Nightmares]

Hello and welcome. I love your icon, it's so serene.

[autumn swan]

I love your icon as well! Does it have a special meaning to you?

I don't have much experience with revenge spells. Why don't you try to bind her from bringing more harm to you and your family first? I think in the end everybody will get what they have coming for them. As long as she hasn't done any crimes that you could turn her over for the police, for example, I think it would be best dealt with in a way that prevents more harm. And, no matter how evil she is, there is a reason for her acting. I really don't want to defend any and bad behavior but most people who are acting out of control do it due to some pain they are suffering. Just saying.

Welcome to the forum btw :wink2:

[SpiritTalker]

Joanna87, I'm sorry you've suffered so. I don't think you need to be bothering with spells. Nobody just jumps in and whips up a spell if they don't know the basics. That just ain't gonna fly. You called it when you said reap what you sow. If you pour all the hurt and anger into a spell I'd bet you'll get whip lash. And it won't change anything. Hang a punching bag in the garage and kick the crap out of it instead.