Please reply i need help

[Buffy_Rules]

i really need a quality forgetting spell to make a really mean person (who used to be my best friend) forget that i am a witch before she tells everyone

i hate her now so she has decided to tell everyone everything about me

i need her to forget


please!!!!!!!!!!!!

[juliaki]

Welcome to life out of the broom closet. You made a choice to tell her, and you have to live with the consequences of that choice. Causing harm to her isn't a good way to resolve your bad choice of judgment.

[hedge*]

Life is all about making descisions. There will countless be times that you'll make descisions that you later realise were wrong - it's called learning and we all go through it.
It is better to learn from your bad descisions for future choices and accept the consequences.

[Skylights]

That's a tough situation, and you have my sympathies, but like the other said, it was your choice to tell her. Of course you didn't know that she was going to change her tune and threaten you with it, but it was still the choice you made.

Instead of trying to alter her mindset magickally, maybe you should alter your own. Is the world really going to end if she tells people about you? You might be surprised by who doesn't believe her, who doesn't care, or who is excited to hear it.

Part of being a Wiccan or a witch or a Christian or a Jew or anything, is being able to be that no matter what anyone thinks. If everyone knowing about you is going to ruin your life, then maybe you need to reconsider whether you're really ready for this.

[corrupted_beauty]

Hmmm... looks like you may have to come out of the broom closet. I know it must be terrible to have to deal with someone threatening you, but there really isn't anything you can do. Remember the three fold law, don't do anything to harm your old friend. Also, try talking to her. Hate is a very strong word. In my opinion, even if you don't like soemone much, hate isn't too much of an option. Then again, I may be being hypocritical with that.

[Buffy_Rules]

I didnt want to tell her i never really trusted her she hacked into my other friend and my email account thats how she found out. she also hacked into our phone calls

this is soooooooooooo bad

i dont want to do anything to hurt her but this is terrible she still hasnt told but she will

maybe i shouldnt do a forgetting spell but i just feel like i need to do something :!:

anyway...

[corrupted_beauty]

Did you try calmly talking to your friend?

[Buffy_Rules]

yes but she wont listen to me

i think she is a bit mentally ill. i hope she gets some help but she doesnt want it and she is being really mean

[Blue Moon Princess]

If you worry about someone confronting you, then the choice to let them invade your privacy is yours alone.

A co-worker of mine is famous in the office for asking people the most outrageously personal questions. She always asks nicely if she can ask and I always tell her "yes". When she drops her little bomb, **I get to choose whether or not to answer**...cool, huh? I didn't say she would get an answer; only that she could ask the question.

Or...fall back on the famous answer-a-question-with-a-question. Such as "where did you hear that"? When they tell you say..."hmmm" and smile. I bet more folks know you 2 are fighting than know you are a witch. Consider the credibility of the source...your ex-best friend.

Sorry to get on a soapbox....hehe Just want to help.

[Buffy_Rules]

thanks that stuff might help