I'm looking for the perfect spell

[sweet_love]

hello there everyone, i am looking for some help looking for a certain spell. First let me give you the background on whats going on. I started dating this man 4 months ago, but he wasnt too sure what he wanted so it was off and on. I decided to cast a love spell and the last few weeks were all I have ever dreamt of until a few days ago when another man i have not talked to in a quite a while sent me an expicit text. My lover now believes that I was seeing that other man on the side, that everything i have said was a lie. I know I have been honest with him. So heres what I need help with. Are there any spells or is there any way to show him i have been honest?? Please someone help me!

[Sercee]

I think that magic isn't what you're looking for here.

First of all, you most likely weren't being honest by casting the love spell to begin with. The VAST majority of love spells, as I'm sure you've read on this forum countless times, screw around with free will. That's dishonest, and it creates an environment where trust can't thrive in most cases. What's probably happening here is that your love spell put your man into a state where he is nearly obsessive with you - the idea that you are attractive to another man means, to him, that you are making yourself attractive to him. That is, after all, what you did with the first guy?

If you're going to do any magic, make it to break the original love spell. Put in place a spell that highlights the traits you have that you know he respects and admires. Let the other guy know in no uncertain terms where he stands and that you don't appreciate what he sent you. Then sit down with your man and give him the chance to appreciate you and believe you on his own.

[sweet_love]

yeah i guess your right i'm just not sure how to go about finding the right ways to do that

[spinneyhex]

You cant just 'use' spells in this way unless you are willing to take responsibility . Im sorry if im being hard but if you mess with free will and something like this happens then you, as a witch need to take responsibility for your actions.

Tell your partner what has happened and he will just have to believe you are true to him.
If you want to constantly use magic to sort your everyday 'real' life out you will be living a lie and will not be learning from lifes lessons, the line between reality and magic will get blurred and it can be dangerous emotionally.
Please think before you act, magic does have consequences its mot just to be used as a 'get out clause'.

[sweet_love]

When I did the love spell I kept in my mind that it would be his will I never wanted to mess with the free will. After the spell was done I just let it go I never did any more and he came to me...mybe i broght this on myself

[spinneyhex]

mybe i broght this on myself

Maybe, maybe not we can't ever tell if its the magic or just fate things like this happen without the use of magic, it may have well been on your web of fate.

If you really do want to use another spell to sort this out then use a spell breaker.

You can do this by actually doing the spell backwards you will have to remember exactly what you did and do it in reverse( a bit theatrical but effective)

[sweet_love]

ok i will do that...i also found a spell to undo spells i have done...thank you so much