Curse? Hex? Advise Please!

[Arcane]

Did you ever stop to think that this was someone you shouldn't have been with in the first place?

[Eretik]

I am pretty sure that is apparent to Forlorn, we all have 20/20 with hindsight.lol. I haven't found that spell yet, but I 'm off to check a few things soon so I will see what I can get and as you are more ethical than me Forlorn, I will do my best to find something that suits. [ I believe in vengeance, I get a bit nasty.lol]

[Eretik]

I 've pm'ed you Forlorn.

[Sobek]

sorry to drag it off topic, but dont you find it funny how someone posts to let someone know they've pm'd them(i do it too lol) but as soon as you come onto the board you get a pop up telling you theres a pm there...

[Eretik]

I forgot about that,I 've been using the blocker, cos I had some problems with ads.

[Elem]

but as soon as you come onto the board you get a pop up telling you theres a pm there...

Really? I've never had that.. Hmm.. No wonder I never notice when I've got a PM.

Elem

[juliaki]

I would let it go if it was just myself but how can I when it has affected my family so badly?

It's their choice to be affected...and their karma, fears, and issues to work through, not yours. You may have brought a situation into their lives, but you are not responsible for them being unwilling to let go. If you make the first step toward letting go, perhaps you can inspire them to do the same.

[Forlorn]

I would let it go if it was just myself but how can I when it has affected my family so badly?

It's their choice to be affected...and their karma, fears, and issues to work through, not yours. You may have brought a situation into their lives, but you are not responsible for them being unwilling to let go. If you make the first step toward letting go, perhaps you can inspire them to do the same.

I am sure you didnt mean offence but I think it sounds slightly unkind to say it is their choice that they have been hurt...also this is not simply the case of a relationship split and like we are clinging to something and not wanting to let go of this person as you seem think...if anything it is this person is clinging onto negativity and continuing to do so which continues to affect our lives in a very negative way. If you live in a small town with small town mentality you can truly understand the gravity of why my nan for instance has been so affected by this that she can no longer bear to leave the house. I do not think you really feel where I am coming from but ppl are entitled to different opinions and thanks for your opinions irrespective [/b]