I'm not sure if I posted this in the right area but here goes:
Hi everyone! I'm a newbie and am having some trouble. I've tried a healing spell and a "stop having feelings for someone" spell and It doesn't seem to be working....I thought I was doing everything right.
Basically, as far as emotional healing I'd like a spell to rid my romantic feelings for a previous partner. Does anyone have a spell for this or any suggestions?
Thank you.
Emotional Healing?
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[RedWolf]
Hello Diana,
This is kind of difficult to answer. I think we need a bit more information. Why do you want to rid yourself of the feeling of love for this person? If it is because it is combined with the feeling of pain and you really want to be rid of the pain???
If so, then first off you must except the situation as it stands now - as in not as you had it in the past or what you wish for in the future. If he has hurt you, you must forgive him. In forgiving him, you take back control of yourself. You don't need to contact him, just look into your own mind at what he did and feel forgiveness for it. Then you must forgive yourself. I know, that sounds weird but we often are mad at ourselves as much, if not more, for letting the other person have enough control to hurt us and we must forgive ourselves for our own perceived weakness.
When you forgive, it allows the pain to ease on away. It is a necessary step in all emotional healing. It doesn't mean you condone what was done, or say the deed or behavior was OK, it just means you are letting go of the effect it has on you. By letting go, you can then enjoy a feeling of fondness for this person but you are no longer "obsessed" with thinking of him all the time, and with time the feeling of love for this person will not be as strong (and It will free up your mind and your heart to start a romance with someone new LOL)
The best magic is always in your own mind - that is where all of our powers lay. To move on from a past romance takes time, but once you've taken care of the forgiving part, it will move faster than you think. Take from each relationship you have with someone all the lessons you were meant to learn with that person. If there is pain involved, forgive (learn the lessons) and move on.
Hope this helps some
Many Blessings
RW
This is kind of difficult to answer. I think we need a bit more information. Why do you want to rid yourself of the feeling of love for this person? If it is because it is combined with the feeling of pain and you really want to be rid of the pain???
If so, then first off you must except the situation as it stands now - as in not as you had it in the past or what you wish for in the future. If he has hurt you, you must forgive him. In forgiving him, you take back control of yourself. You don't need to contact him, just look into your own mind at what he did and feel forgiveness for it. Then you must forgive yourself. I know, that sounds weird but we often are mad at ourselves as much, if not more, for letting the other person have enough control to hurt us and we must forgive ourselves for our own perceived weakness.
When you forgive, it allows the pain to ease on away. It is a necessary step in all emotional healing. It doesn't mean you condone what was done, or say the deed or behavior was OK, it just means you are letting go of the effect it has on you. By letting go, you can then enjoy a feeling of fondness for this person but you are no longer "obsessed" with thinking of him all the time, and with time the feeling of love for this person will not be as strong (and It will free up your mind and your heart to start a romance with someone new LOL)
The best magic is always in your own mind - that is where all of our powers lay. To move on from a past romance takes time, but once you've taken care of the forgiving part, it will move faster than you think. Take from each relationship you have with someone all the lessons you were meant to learn with that person. If there is pain involved, forgive (learn the lessons) and move on.
Hope this helps some
Many Blessings
RW
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