Mending a friend's heartache..

[kuotetsu]

Help me.. My friend's heartbroken and he has suicidal tendencies... I am the cause of my friend's heartache, I did not accept the love my friend is giving.. I want this person to realize that not everything fit in place.. that some things are meant to be given up... Help me, please send good thoughts to my friend..

Thank You so much...

[[HangedMan]]

oh sadness. sending positive thoughts and energy to you and your friend. but if your friend is having suicidal tendencies, you should-- or someone should-- really try to get him/her help. they may hate you for it at the time, but you'll be glad you did.

[One Walker]

I would say leave him alone. You broke his heart and now you want to mess with it some more by trying to do what? Pump 'love' back into it? You'll only confuse him and hurt him a lot more. It's like pouring salt into an open wound. You ripped his guts out-not in a malevolent sense I'm sure-and now you want to be friendly with him? It just doesn't work that way. It does no help and makes the hurt a hundred times worse because all you're doing is prolonging his agony. Forget friendship for right now and let him work it out with his friends and family. When he recovers, and if he wants to, he'll start a friendship with you.

And don't you be the one to recommend to him that he get professional counseling for any suicidal tendencies he may be exhibiting. That too is perceived as you rubbing his face in it. Have one of his friends make that recommendation or voice that idea, okay?

One Walker.