Problem conceiving a baby

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jenny19831

Problem conceiving a baby

Postby jenny19831 » Mon Oct 05, 2009 11:00 am

hi there been months since been in here

well hi im jen 26 and the worse stress ever trying for a baby been trying now year i had a misscarage aug 08 and then couple months ago they found i got policstic ovries cant spell sorry. :oops: cut long stroy short they put me on a drug called clomid, and life getting worse trying is totally destroying me and my family making me so depressed...

can you help any information be good thanks alot :D

jenny19831

Postby jenny19831 » Mon Oct 05, 2009 12:02 pm

am due on tomorrow never no... also got funral which isnt good. (same day) hope you can help me........ i was told ages ago by a woman off ebay i would be preg by october(this month) just makes u have your hopes up.

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Postby NightRose » Mon Oct 05, 2009 3:12 pm

This is a good site I found with information about Clomid used to aid in conception: http://www.preconception.com/articles/t ... -you-1273/
I have no personal knowledge of the drug myself, so I'm afraid I can't help you more on that matter.

As for trying pregnancy, you have to remember to think positive. It might be that the stress of trying is hindering you in conceiving. What will happen will happen. If the fertility treatment doesn't work, have you considered implanting a fertilized egg (they would use your eggs and your husband's(/boyfriend's) sperm). If that didn't work, there is always adoption, or a surrogate mother. There are so many options for you, don't give up hope!

I haven't looked through your old posts, so I'm not sure what path you follow, but the main site has several fertility rituals you could try to aid you: http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/s ... spells.htm

What else are you trying other than the drugs? Does your doctor having you monitoring your internal temperature to map ovulation? Are you on anything else?

jenny19831

Postby jenny19831 » Mon Oct 05, 2009 3:50 pm

no hun just gave them me and said there is 6 months supply go home :twisted:

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Postby NightRose » Mon Oct 05, 2009 4:59 pm

Oh dear. Then my first recommendation is to find a different doctor!

There are a lot of things you can do to help with fertility. Some of them are as simple as making sure you're getting the right vitamins! Another thing you can do is get what is called a "basal thermometer", which you can buy at a local drugstore. By monitoring your internal body temperature every day, you can tell when you're going to ovulate, so you know when the best days to try for a child on. Those are just the two ideas I know off the top of my head, and I'm neither a doctor nor trying for a child. A better doctor should be able to give you even more ideas.

Also, consider searching for a forum of women trying for children, or a local support group. They will not only be a great support network for you, they also should have a better idea of more options for you. Just being put on medicines and sent away is not my idea of a good doctor.

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Postby Kassandra » Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:31 am

Jen, want to ask you this....there seems to be a lot riding on you having this baby....what will happen, in your mind, if for some reason you don't have this baby? For example, will your marriage end? Did your husband threaten to leave? Or, is your mother pressuring you to have another child, or is his mother pressuring you?

If you don't have another baby any time soon, what do you believe will happen next? There seems to be more to this story.

jenny19831

Postby jenny19831 » Wed Oct 07, 2009 11:31 am

nothing hun just with new partner and we decided to have a baby thats all nothing will happen if we dont life will go on i guess have fun with my 9 year old and enjoy life... no one is making me have one.. my partner did say he is happy what he has got me and my 9 year old daughter...

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Postby jenny19831 » Wed Oct 07, 2009 11:34 am

thank you for your help though xx its nice to talk to someone,

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Postby Kassandra » Wed Oct 07, 2009 5:50 pm

my partner did say he is happy what he has got me and my 9 year old daughter...
That's very good to hear. I just wondered if you were under pressure of some sort because I noticed you posted the same question in several other forums at the same time, as well as earlier this year in May, and June.

So if you were being pressured, I would have suggested taking a look at that dynamic before even considering having a baby. I guess I'm cautious because I recently did a reading for a lady who actually told me she wanted to have a baby because she was "having problems" in her marriage. In her mind, the baby was supposed to solve all her problems. So I refocused my reading to address the marriage, which was the real problem, and had nothing to do with their having a baby. That's why I asked you that.

But it seems you were just venting and needed someone to talk to. I hope you find NightRose's suggestions helpful, and I wish you the best.

jenny19831

Postby jenny19831 » Thu Oct 08, 2009 1:02 am

morning.. thank you so much

would you do a reading for me ?? if not its fine i am doing what NightRose's said im going back doctors etc.. thank you so much

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Postby Kassandra » Thu Oct 08, 2009 2:22 pm

Jen, unfortunately I don't do readings on this website, only moderating. But Tigerlilly has already done a nice reading for you. It has a positive tone to it. Reread it, and reflect upon it. And as a head's up, be careful about getting addicted to readings, expecting someone to tell you something different every time. That's a lost cause.

Consider this too: sometimes when several different sources are telling you the same thing, that's your reading. In response to one of your posts, , Atheist of Peace, and NightRose all suggested you try to think positively. Even Tigerlilly's reading says, "I sense there may have to be a new way of thinking in order for you to conceive." It seems that the Universe has given you your reading about his matter: change your thoughts; get a positive frame of mind.

Do try NightRose's suggestions, not only about getting a second opinion from another doctor (which should always be done for important things, anyway, esp in this healthscare system) but also try her other suggestions, such as doing some ritual work to get your mind/spirit in the right place. Do you really want to bring a child into the spirit of anxiety and fear you're currently generating, or would you rather the child to come to a mother's womb that vibrates peace and love?

Here's a beautiful activity for you and your partner to do: Couples Candle Spell Try some other ones on that page. Do only one per week, maximum, to give you time to reflect. Keep a journal and record your feelings about each ritual, thoughts that cross your mind, conversations you and your partner have afterward, etc. Take some time to go inward.

I wish you the best in your efforts.

jenny19831

Postby jenny19831 » Fri Oct 09, 2009 12:49 am

thank you so much for your help xxxx


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