Help Please...

[MysticEnchantress]

Hello,
I know this is a bit long but I need some advice/help so here goes...
The story is...
About 2 years ago weird things started happening to me...
I caught Mono and I was never around/kissed anyone with mono and the weird thing about the illness is that no one around me ever caught it and I kissed my boyfriend while i had it and he never came down with it... its strange to me... so after that illness costed me about 3 months out of high school... when i began attending school again i felt strange every morning (strange like i was too tired to do anything and i even remember a moment where it felt like someone was trying to attack me; i could feel the bed shaking; but i could only half open my eyes and see nothing but feel everything and I tried to scream out but nothing came out it was if i was paralyzed!)(other times I would be so out that I wouldnt even hear the alarm clock that went off for about an hour and a half before i would even slightly hear it)(I never slept like this ever! i was always poping out of bed the second the obnoxious buzzer goes off) ... i would sleep to the point where i would go to school at like 12 in the afternoon if i even got up to go to school and i couldnt explain my tiredness i spoke to my doctor and he said it may still be the mono working its way out of my body with fatigue(it should end in about a month he says)... but now two years later and i still battle from that overwhelming fatigue... I feel like someone has done this to me because not only am I tired my hair doesnt grow and it seems like its at a standstill about a half an inch below my shoulders after i cut it 2 years ago!!!... my hair use to be about 9 inches below my shoulders! I know im not still sick.... I have a weird feeling that a girl at my school may have done something to me.... she use to be my best friend and then she drifted away and she called strangly the night after our graduation (and what do you know I'm sick with strep... and again no one caught that and I caught it from who knows where because again I didnt know anyone with it) so she calls and talks to me for about 5mins and i tell her that im sick and she says the weirdest thing to me, she says "You always get sick for graduations"... in 5th grade (we had an end of elementary school thing) I had food posioning but she never knew about that and its pretty freaky...this must seem to anyone whos reading this like i just get sick alot but i really dont.... she also said "I got the best grades on my report card"... this is coming from a girl that use to have to ask me for hlep and I use to always get better grades then her now my grades are down and hers are up its weird... see the big reason why i think she has a big part in this... is that some time ago a little before we stoped talking i was speaking to her and she tells me that she "accidentally" burnt my leg in a picture she had of me... I dont know what she could have possibly been burning to accidnetally do that.. she thought it was hilarious though because she was cracking up when she was telling me and i asked how she did that and she never told me... but ever since then it seems like my social life, my personality, my friends, my luck, my grades have completely went away and now... this girl who use to only hang out with a few people all the time, afraid of boys, and anything that involved smoking or drinking has completely taken everything... she even dyed her hair and got highlights to the same color as my hair!!!
I'm so sorry for burdening you with my problems but I dont know what to do anymore... I miss my life, my hair and everything about me that it seems shes stolen... I dont even feel like i look the same anymore my eyes seem very different when i look into them as if its someone elses and not my own...
If you have any advice or a cure... I would extremely appreciate it....
Thank You soooo much for taking the time to read this

[Wolf Heart]

First of all I would go see a doctor! Make sure you don't have some kind of illness that is causing your fatigue and stunted hair growth, you never know.

As for your suspicion about the girl, I'd suggest doing some protection spells, and maybe even a spell for your health.

Wolf Heart

[Elem]

First suggestion - Go and see a Doctor.. Please. When your hair stops growing, you're fatigued, you feel dull, your eyes don't look the same.. This is a general sign that you should seek medical attention.

It could be a simple as a mineral deficieny.. Or as complex as a problem with a gland. Whilst I don't mean to scare you in any way, please bear in mind that if you've had these symptoms for two years... I think it's about time you went and got them checked out by a health professional.

Children are cruel, yes, but as cruel as this girl may well be.. I highly highly doubt she's the cause of your problems. This illness, whatever it is, is likely to be causing your lower grades, loss of confidence, etc... You suggest that you sometimes wouldn't go to school at all, or simply go in late.. Do you not feel that this will have affected your grades at all, as well? You can only acheive good grades through (relatively) good attendance, and being 'aware' and 'awake' in lessons.. As opposed to feeling fatigued and ill.

Please, go and see someone about this. If they tell you it's nothing (I highly doubt this, though, given your symptoms), then I'd suggest you look at your lifestyle. Do you eat well (three meals a day / 5 portions of fruit n veg a day)? Do you exercise regularly?

Lack of a solid routine for your body (i.e. a decent sleep pattern, food pattern, exercise pattern) can affect you in countless ways - In particular, make you feel fatigued, give you a lower attention span, make you feel 'down' (and, consequently, affect how others may act around you)..

If I were you, I'd ignore this girl as a 'source' of the problem - It's not her. Whilst her comments may have made you feel worse, I find it likely that the problem is something you need to talk about with a Doctor.

I'll be thinking of you, and wishing you all the best during this time. I can't provide you with a cure.. Only a Doctor, or yourself, can do that.. But I hope my advice has helped, and the knowledge that I'll be thinking of you and hoping things work out .

Good luck - Please keep us updated...

Elem

[MysticEnchantress]

Thanks for the advice...
I have visted the doctor numerous times and he says that there isnt anyhting wrong with me... He suggested I may be depressed... I exercise everyday
(which gives you endorphines (which make you happy) so I dont possibly see how I could be depressed) and I eat healthy... I just keep thinking she has somehthing to do with this... The way she suddenly turned into something and I basically went down the drain makes me believe shes to blame... I know I shouldnt place blame but it seems like all signs (in my eyes) point to her... (my mom told me that she spoke to the girl sometime ago and as they were conversing the girl spoke about one of her friends mom's being into witchcraft so that is another sign that I feel that she's done something)... she's always wanted to be me and now she thinks she has succeeded, but I have to change that..

[Elem]

the girl spoke about one of her friends mom's being into witchcraft so that is another sign that I feel that she's done something

I'd be careful making such comments in a Forum full of witches . Just because somebody knows someone into Witchcraft.. It doesn't mean they'd use some form of 'black magick' against you, for their own gain.

He suggested I may be depressed

Good suggestion. Unfortunately, depression is a very complex thing to cope with. Whilst exercise and a good routine certainly goes some way toward helping it.. It's not going to solve it.

The way you describe your actions reminds me of a friend, who was quite badly depressed. Admittedly, he was worse than you (very fatigued, getting up late all the time, etc..), but you might want to consider the possibility that you are... And, unfortunately, the only way to 'rid' yourself of it is to learn to cope with whatever caused it.

Has there ever been an incident in your life that's made you feel particularly.. Down? Something that's really affected you, aside from this? (although, this could well be the cause) I'll understand if you don't want to answer, but just have a think about when you first started feeling fatigued (after the Mono should've cleared up), first started skipping school, etc..

she's always wanted to be me and now she thinks she has succeeded, but I have to change that..

But remember - She isn't you. Some very sad, small-minded people get envious, and they try as hard as they can to be someone else.. Normally because they're insecure, or aren't happy with their life. Be happy that you aren't that person.. And that, no matter what this girl may do, she will never be you.

You're obviously intelligent, and someone to be envied, if this girl would go through so much to try and have what you have. Be happy for that, and proud of it. Act just like you used to - That 'you' is still in there, she hasn't gone anywhere.. She's just hiding beneath the 'you' that you see now. Stick your shoulders back, stand up straight and just be happy that you're you, and no matter what she does, she can never even come close to being you .

Got that ? Good.

Elem

[juliaki]

When I got mono in college (I was infected by eating food at the college fast-food counter where one of the employees had just "recovered" from mono but was still contagious), it took me almost 4 years to recover fully. Even 8 years later, if I wasn't careful, I came down with a mild relapse.

Although exercise does provide and endorphine rush, it does not cure depression...it only provides short-term relief from a long-term condition.

As far as eating healthy goes, my ex-mother-in-law was a "healthy eater", and it nearly killed her. Apparently she wasn't getting enough of certain substances because she ate little meat. I'd suggest seeking out counseling to address the depression issue and a certified nutritionalist to see about other potential health issues.

[MysticEnchantress]

Thanks elm,
I'm sorry about the comment about the women and witchcraft.. i didnt think about it and you are absolutly right (why would she want to delve into black magick just to harm an innocent child she doesnt know, that couldnt possibly be a solution)! You have been really helpful thank you so much for your thoughtful words I feel better just reading what u have said... and juliaki thanks for informing me of your episode with mono also... You all have been very helpful thank you for your kind words...

[Raven451]

My son's Gf actually has Mono atm and I'm worried he is going to get it..I had it when I was 14 as well and I was out for a month..that being said..The reason they call it the Kissing Disease is because it is spread through Saliva...and most teenagers get it through kissing..It can also be spread from water fountains, sneezing, drinking or eating after someone with it..I actually had no BF when I got it so I must have got it from one of the other methods..It does stay in your body the rest of your life..your body builds immunitys to it so that once you get it you never get it again...
I highly doubt that the girl has cast a spell against you..I agree with Elem ..You sound like you might be depressed ..Just because a person is into Witchcraft definitely does not mean they practice Dark Magic..More likely the opposite..If it would make you feel better and it certainly couldn't hurt you could do a spell for protection ..I hope you feel better and good luck..

Bright Blessings,

Lori

[brokenxdreams]

Well first thing I recomend is seeing someone about the depression that the doctor thinks you might have.

Not all people are morning people (I would be in that category ). So not being able to wake up as early as you used to doesn't exactly mean that someone has cast a spell on you. Also, the mono could still be affecting you.

As for the shaking of the bed, you could've just been dreaming it (and beleive me I have had dreams that have seemed and felt so real I thought it was, until I realized it wasn't).

I think doing two spells might also help out: A protection spell and a spell to help you get your life to go back to the way it was before. Now I'm not saying that the girl did do a spell on you, but I have heard that sometimes people have very strong thoughts that sometimes turn into spells without them even knowing about it. And as for the second spell I recommended, you can just think about how your life was before the mono happened and keep saying to yourself as you're imagining it that it will go back to normal. Repeat this everyday.

If you do the two spells and apart from that try figuring out what really did cause all of this (and fixing it), it should help tremendously.

Good luck! I hope you feel better soon

-brokenxdreams-