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Ok, i've heard all sorts of mixed things on these. Many say they don't exist, but at the same time i've seen quite a few people who insist they do. If they do exist, then how is it that one determines if their cursed? I swear I have to be cursed when it comes to dating. It seems every single girl I meet that I am interested that has interest in me has the same exact issue. Me and her get along great for a few weeks and I start getting really into her, and she gets really into me. Then without fail her and I usually have a really fun time where it seems things can't get better between us, things take a sharp turn in the opposite direction. This is usually on the first or second date or hanging out. It usually comes a day or 2 after that really great time where I get this gut feeling that nothing I do can save the situation between her and I. The girl always pretends nothing is up sorta playing dumb, but then come to find out later the reason for this is that shes getting back with her ex (or some other guy she just met, but usually an ex) that doesn't treat her right and that she complained to me in the past was a jerk. In a few cases her ex she got back with even beat her aside from treating her bad.

These situations always pop up with me. The first few times I figured it was just coincidence that I attract these types. But after this happening to me countless times over my 31 years im seriously starting to think its something else behind it. What that something is I have no clue, but its getting really frustrating since its the same story happening to me so often. Does anyone think this may be a curse, bad luck, or just coincidence? All I know is that its really screwed with my emotions and I now seriously doubt any sort of relationship will ever work since I get this same story with nearly every girl im interested in thats interested in me.

Gimme two sec, there is already a topic on this in the spell/ritual section.... i will find it :p(hehe, I've become an expert on that section as of late )



Fount it! http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/f ... php?t=1659

Not sure of the exact content, and yes it says hexes.. but curses and hexes are pretty much the same thing. I hope that helps any :p

Gimme two sec, there is already a topic on this in the spell/ritual section.... i will find it :p(hehe, I've become an expert on that section as of late )



Fount it! http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/f ... php?t=1659

Not sure of the exact content, and yes it says hexes.. but curses and hexes are pretty much the same thing. I hope that helps any :p

Hmm, i've read through some of that and im not quite sure thats what im looking for. I mostly want to know if my situation sounds like a curse to anyone, like how to determine if it is. Then if so how to remove a curse of this type. I really have no knowledge on spell casting to remove this stuff or what type of spell I would need to reverse this if it is one. Heck, im not even sure how I would have been cursed in the first place to get this same sort of situation to happen so often. Anyway, i'll read through the other thread a little more and see if I can pick something of use out of it.

Black Onyx is a known for its powers of protection and defense. It helps us to protect ourselves in times of conflict and to defend ourselves against negativity. It is also a stone of balancing. It can provide a centering and stability to your life.

You will need:

-a black candle
-black onyx (it can be in the form of a pendant, ring, earring, ect... even the actual stone by itself can be used, as long as it's black onyx)
-a pen
-paper


Begin by finding a quiet, undisturbed area. Get some paper, a pen and relax. Light the candle and make sure the pendant is close to it. Focus on the flame and breath deeply. Push your worries out of your mind. Pick up the pendant and hold it in your hands. Know what it is and what power it has. Carefully pass the pendant over the flame (don’t touch the pendant to the flame) three times. Each time imagine the crystal becoming ‘clean’ of all energies that are not supposed to be there. Take the cleansed pendant and hold it in your hands. You should now feel that stone much stronger now. Now it is time to cleanse yourself. Take your paper and pen and write down what your fears are. Write about your anger, helplessness, and the craziness of your life, or in the lives of those you wish to protect. Write down every word of how you feel about the situation(s). This is how the process begins. Feel the stone taking on those things which frighten you, or on those things that you wish to have protected. When you are through, hold the pendant and let its energies overwhelm you. Feel its strength making you stronger. Take your paper(s) to the sink with the lit candle (use caution) and burn it. Know that this is a new beginning. Let the crystal serve as a reminder whenever you feel you need protection or need some balance in your life.

This spell was from

http://www.whiterosesgarden.com/book_of ... DEX_PG.htm

I've used this spell personally. It gives great protection, removes hexes and curses, and gives a sense of security. This is an excellent spell in my opinion.

Thanks. I'll try this out whenever I manage to find a black onyx and black candle. Im hoping this will bring some sort of positive result in breaking this cycle.

Oh, no problem

Also, I'm posting the magical properties of black onyx:

Black Onyx
Great for defense against negativity. Can be used to reduce sexual desires. Onyx is an extremely potent protective stone, and is widely known for its ability to protect against psychic attacks and hexes.

If you are having trouble finding a black candle, go to hallmark (yes the store... I'm serious) and look for the candle named ' Midsummer's night '. Get the sample size though, since anything bigger will look very close to dark blue.

Black onyx is also a relatively cheap stone... I bought one the size of an Eisenhower silver dollar for 20 bucks. Just make sure that, if it is jewelry, it's not in gold or something, because that will jack up it's price enormously (unless you want the finish to be in gold).

I think it will cure whatever problems you might be having (if it really is a curse). Just make sure you carry it around with you at all times (once you do the spell, of course ).

There are a lot of girls I've run into who respond, just as you described, to anyone that shows them kindness. It is as if, they can't believe or accept the fact someone is actually treating them right.

I would do a spell anyway...it only can help the situation.

There are a lot of girls I've run into who respond, just as you described, to anyone that shows them kindness. It is as if, they can't believe or accept the fact someone is actually treating them right.

I would do a spell anyway...it only can help the situation.

I swear though, its happened so much, it really feel like some outside force is purposely trying to break me down and lose all confidence when it comes to relationships. And it has become a problem for me indeed.

i have some advice if that's o.k.? there are a few things i'd like to throw at you to think about and i'm sure some you have already considered. if it's tru that as you say, most of these females end up going back to their ex's, ask yourself "why am i attracted to this kind of person?". do you want to save them? you probably are a very good listener and a really nice guy and think that if you show how nice you are that they will stay with you. do you feel at times that at least it's better than being alone? you probably have a sneaking suspicion early on (well, you'd have to if it's happened more than once because you know the drill, so to speak). is there something about yourself that feels you don't deserve better? if this were not so, you'd pick someone else entirely and make yourself scarce when a person starts talking about how much they'd been abused. it's good to be there for somebody as a shoulder to cry on but, enough is enough don't you think? ask yourself some hard questions and make some changes. sometimes we have to think outside the box and step out in a different direction. while i certainly don't know everything, i have lived a little bit and had my share of relationships. i've been on both sides of what you're talking about. good luck to you.

i have some advice if that's o.k.? there are a few things i'd like to throw at you to think about and i'm sure some you have already considered. if it's tru that as you say, most of these females end up going back to their ex's, ask yourself "why am i attracted to this kind of person?". do you want to save them? you probably are a very good listener and a really nice guy and think that if you show how nice you are that they will stay with you. do you feel at times that at least it's better than being alone? you probably have a sneaking suspicion early on (well, you'd have to if it's happened more than once because you know the drill, so to speak). is there something about yourself that feels you don't deserve better? if this were not so, you'd pick someone else entirely and make yourself scarce when a person starts talking about how much they'd been abused. it's good to be there for somebody as a shoulder to cry on but, enough is enough don't you think? ask yourself some hard questions and make some changes. sometimes we have to think outside the box and step out in a different direction. while i certainly don't know everything, i have lived a little bit and had my share of relationships. i've been on both sides of what you're talking about. good luck to you.

Trust me, i've thought about all this before. And no, its not that im attracted to that type at all. Its more like their drawn to me. Something I also think I forgot to mention you reminded me of is about being a good listener. Yeah most these girls seem to use me as sort of an emotional crutch because I do actually care, listen, and understand. I've tried all sorts of changes and I just keep meeting these types. Their people I click with really good too. Thats actually a rare thing for me I might add. I dont understand why this type of woman is drawn to me. I did however learn a few years back never to take a girl im interested in thats interested in me too serious. I simply couldnt allow myself to be hurt out of anything anymore. Its not to say I won't show interest back in a girl, its just that I wont expect too much out of it because I already know the end of the story.

There is something else, I've completely forgotten about until now. After I started working with healing energies a lot...and this was later, since running into girls of that type. I would just be minding my own business, but these hurting types seem really attracted in days following healing rituals. If you are carrying some of that healing energy around, they must be able to sense it, draw some comfort in being near you. As long as they feel good, you will see them.

There is something else, I've completely forgotten about until now. After I started working with healing energies a lot...and this was later, since running into girls of that type. I would just be minding my own business, but these hurting types seem really attracted in days following healing rituals. If you are carrying some of that healing energy around, they must be able to sense it, draw some comfort in being near you. As long as they feel good, you will see them.

Hmm, now thats an interesting response. How would I know if I carry healing type energies around? I honestly don't think I do, but hey im open to anything. One of the traits about myself is that im very deep emotionally. When im happy, I really get happy and feel it deeper then most. And on the reverse, even the smallest little emotional pain can drag me way down. Its both a blessing and a curse I suppose. It has however taught me to be more feeling of other peoples emotions. Its almost as I take their hurt on as my own and feel what they feel and I tend to want to help them more then myself when somethings wrong.

Another thing I notice with a lot of these girls is a bit tough to explain. Im sure you're familiar with auras right? I've never seen one, but with certain people I feel them. Sometimes all it takes is seeing a picture of a person and I get a strong feel for their personality and emotions. I can't even put words to some of the emotions. Their simply feelings. Well many of these women I tend to get similar feelings about. Its more like a feeling of them being empty, scared and confused. Maybe its because I feel like that a lot myself and their somehow drawn by some sort of unseen energy.

Hi. Phantasystar77
I came across a friend of a friend with a simular situation.
Very nice guy in his 30s, he started to speak to me about being cursed, and wanted to look into it for himself.. he was taken for a ride by a few people that he paid heaps of money to, but still they just sucked the life and money out of him.. (as they told him he was cursed and they would remove for money).

He has grounded and shielded, cleansed his house etc. but it is still there, he feels its even at this moment destroying his new relationship.

I expressed to him, which might help a little here, His belief in the curse came from someone that told him for there own benefit.. in your case a pattern of bad partners / girlfriends, has brought you to this conclusion..

Either way –a “seed” has been planted, and you are holding onto this seed and giving it energy.

For example “ I will always be cursed when it comes to relationships”. Hence giving it strength and structure, each time.

So in affect you are manifesting your own curse in your own mind, giving it energy with every person that comes and goes in your life.
As he mentioned to me, he would start the relationship off well, then as soon as he realises he has feelings, and these deepen, then this triggers his own thoughts, “oh no the curse”, hence he set it in motion again.

So his feelings are the trigger here, and I feel they could be the same for you, after a couple of days, you remember the curse and this triggers you into responding, maybe even acting differently, because you have given the curse power by believing it will do something to your partner.

It would only be logical to think this would then trigger you into reaching out more, becoming more clingy, or even a sign of desperation might appear. As you feel it might be slipping away. Either way it becomes apparent your not at ease.. even to your partner.

So now this “seed” moves into reality, from your thoughts, feelings and intuition to actions. Giving it an existence and status, you see the results and then hence giving it more power by stating its real.….

SO if you want to look at it, like this seed is your curse…
And the only one that can remove this is YOU and you can do it- without paying for it..

(( When we focus on, or believe in a curse it can control your life, what you are doing is giving power to these feelings, & you are giving your power away to fear. You have the power to stop these feelings, by empowering yourself. )).

Meditation daily even if its 15mins, this is a great energy source to release energy, & gather energy.
Meditation daily can strengthen you shielding abilities to. Also remember to shield on different colours and vibrations these also do help greatly.
There are so many ways to defend ourselves, but if we don't believe in ourselves FIRST, that we can, it just won't happen.

So self work, maybe taking a deep look at yourself and clean out any of the rubbish.
Sometimes we blame ourselves on too much, and forget we sometimes don’t have the luxury of knowing what the other person is truly thinking.

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also did a little reading online of curses, I found some interesting comments. - - - - -

There is an old saying, "change your attitude and you can change your life". This especially applies when it comes to removing a curse.

We believe that the most effective long-term solution to clearing a curse, jinx, or getting past a "black hole" in your life is rooted in a change in attitude.
This is because the first remedy for clearing a curse is to raise your vibrational frequency so that the negative energy can no longer infect your life... and to do this, you must start trusting yourself to heal yourself, and to start loving yourself, seeing the purpose and value in your challenges, learning to laugh at yourself and to be grateful, to appreciate your life as it is...

Easier said than done, I know... but when you lose the victim in you and decide to take control in a most loving non-judgmental way, you take the first steps to disempowering any curse that might be at work on your life.
The next important step in clearing a curse is to perform a service... the more you get into helping others, the easier it is to raise your vibrational frequency, and this also clears any karma associated with the old charge of a curse...

I often suggest that people give away something they really care for and at
the same time, to do a complete clearing of their home, to get rid of anything they don't need, don't like or don't use...scrub the walls, clear the cobwebs from all the hidden spaces.... it is also important to do this work yourself as a kind of "active
meditation". This can be an incredibly effective way of clearing out old negative energy,
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Sorry I don’t have the link where I got this, as it was some time ago.

I do hope this will help you greatly.
Blessings Tymar

Thanks, what you said was really something to think about.