Finding a Lost item

[TemperanceXLee]

When I was younger, I met my guardian and he helped me through a lot. A few months later, I found a hematite pendant shaped like an angel. When I first saw it, I knew it was something that was important, and I was instantly drawn to it. I wore it everyday for almost two years, and it made me feel safe and reminded me that he was there.
About three weeks ago, I lost it. I'm wondering if it's bad that I'm so attached to a stone, and if anyone has any ideas on how to find it. Any help is really appreciated.

[Iris]

Have you tried scrying? Maybe it'll at least give you an idea of where to look.

[TemperanceXLee]

I did try scrying, but I only managed other issues, nothing to do with the necklace came up, but I'll try again. Thanks Iris

[WitchyLady506]

Maybe you were meant to lose it.

[TemperanceXLee]

I keep thinking that, and it's killing me. I loved that necklace so much. It made me feel safe, and reminded me that Gabe was always there, and I just can't stand the thought of losing.

[WitchyLady506]

Why do you need a necklace to remind you of such a thing. Maybe that's part of why you lost it, cause it's what's causing you to remember instead of you gratitude for the help he's given and the fact that he is going to be there for you. It should be that fact making you feel safe, not a necklace. We tend to get attached to things for one reason or another, mostly memories, but we have to remember that they're just things and our memories and those who helped us create them are what's really precious.

[TemperanceXLee]

I am grateful that he's there, and I love him so much. I know I shouldn't need it, and I suppose I've lived 3 weeks without, and I know he still loves me as much as he did then, and I still love him as much. I just want to know that it's safe I suppose. I know I shouldn't need it, I just don't listen to the part of me that says I don't. I think now I just need to make myself believe that I'm okay with out it and that he's still there. (By the way, I love your name and avatar :] Adorable) Thanks

[WitchyLady506]

To help yourself move on from it, light a candle you feel represents the relationship of you and your guardian and ask that it finds a new owner, one it can give the same kind of strength as it did you and that it will help that person connect with their guardian. And if you do find it, carry it with you and give it to someone when the mood strikes you. Not necessarily someone you know just someone.

[djoya]

And if you do find it, carry it with you and give it to someone when the mood strikes you. Not necessarily someone you know just someone.

I think this is some of the most beautiful advice

[Lily Cantodea]

Have you tried dowsing? I heard it works with lost objects as well as water. And ghosts, but that's a different matter.

[reikihealer83]

Temparence,

I understand your sadness about losing your necklace. I lost one that I loved a lot a few years ago but I like to think of it this way, it was probably meant to move onto someone new so I like to think somone else was blessed by it now. You can try the dowsing but it may need to just move on. Best of luck

[Wolfmoon caster]

U dont need a necklace to feel love, but i typically use dowsing to find lost items.

And if you do find it, carry it with you and give it to someone when the mood strikes you. Not necessarily someone you know just someone.

I think this is some of the most beautiful advice

I couldnt agree more <3

[Secret]

When my sister once lost something important I read up some techniques and tried this one which worked amazingly well. Close you eyes and clear your mind until you stop guessing where it might be, when your mind is completely clear sense the energy of the object and allow yourself to feel a pull to it. After a couple of moments I was drawn to what she'd lost and it was somewhere I couldn't even think of looking. I have tried this a few more times where it was unsuccessful but I can recognise it's because my mind was too all over the place.

[TemperanceXLee]

Wolfmoon, I know I don't need it to know he's there and that he still loves me, but I'm still upset that I lost it.
And thanks Secret, I might try that. I'm sure at this point that it's just gone, but I'd like to know it's safe.

[Wolfmoon caster]

Try this simple approach first. Wait until the next full moon for best results. Concentrate on the item you lost.Recite: "What is lost must now be found, Take my luck and turn it around." Repeat three times.
If you still can't find your lost object, try another more traditional chant. Think about your lost object and say: "Bound and BindingBinding, BoundSee the sightHear the soundWhat was lostNow is foundBound and BindingBinding, Bound"
If your item still eludes you, try this approach. Under a full moon say: "Wolves and Fairies, dragons and ghosts,help me find the thing I need most.My _________ is lost, cannot be found,whether lost above or below the ground.Bring it back to me, SO MOTE IT BE!"
Here is another very simple approach, recite the following."I now invoke the law of three what once was lost returns to me"

Or: http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2009/06 ... abilities/