Help please

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gioistegek

Help please

Postby gioistegek » Sat Jun 26, 2010 12:51 am

First off all, Let's start with introducing myself. My name's Gio and i'm a guy, Around 5'3 (shorty) And half indian, Half dutch.
My family has a background with spiritualism and such.
Now to start with the problem.

I always used to dream about things which were gonna happen, But lately i'm getting weird dreams. And when i wake up i'm all sweaty and shaky.
The first time that this happend was a couple of days before my birthday, I dreamed about a house and i can still perfectly describe it.
Then a couple of days later, I kept dreaming about someone in my dream, And i can't even remember the person. I know that it's a guy.

So lately my friend keeps on telling me that she's starting to feel weird around me, Like i'm sort of changing. And normally, Normally i wouldn't think that someone's hurting me. But i got another dream a couple of days ago, About this forest, I can also exactly describe it.
It used to be normal to get dreams about places where i haven't been yet, But these dreams were more scary then pleasant. And i don't watch horror movies cause i'm not easily scared.

So all with all, I went to a medium. (There's this gathering here twice in a year where mediums and such gather)
And she said that she could feel something, Like someone was doing these things to me. And she said that i should be carefull because someone's watching me, Well that made me go crazy.
'cause i'm a really nice guy, And i always have respect for others.
So why would anyone do this to me?

Well...I didn't trust the medium, So i went to another one, She was all wrong about me. And i went to the third one, This one said nearly the same things like the first medium.

Since then i'm really cautious but how can i stop this?
I've tried dream catchers, they don't work. :S
So please give me some advice, And no fakers please.
Gio.

FreeLove

Postby FreeLove » Sat Jun 26, 2010 1:44 pm

could it be that someone is trying to get your attention in some way? theres a difference if youre feeling threatened or if someone is just messing with you just enough to get your attention. i'll ask my friend, she's REALLY good with identifying what dreams mean so i'll ask her, she's good.

gioistegek

Postby gioistegek » Sat Jun 26, 2010 5:12 pm

I don't know if someone wants my attention. O_O
Let's hope not! XD
And thank you, I'll be waiting for a reply. :D

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Postby Ginger Faith! » Sun Jun 27, 2010 1:53 am

Well, i can maybe help you with this.
Im good at dreams too.
So, before i even go on, can you describe the house and the forest?
Not necessarily details like where the twigs are and such, but location.
Are these places near you?
Because i believe that FreeLove might be correct. If you aren't feeling overly threatened, it could be some spirit trying to make a connection with you. Trying to get you to notice it, and im glad you did. Sometimes spirits get very violent.

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Postby Ginger Faith! » Sun Jun 27, 2010 1:53 am

Oh! I forgot to say,
Good luck.

gioistegek

Postby gioistegek » Mon Jun 28, 2010 8:26 pm

Yeah i can perfectly describe the house and trees.
Sorry for the late response XD

So there's this path which goes up towards the house, On the right side of the path there are two willow trees. It's a sunny day and the house looks like it's recently build, Though i know that it's from the past. (i don't know why, I just know it) When you enter the house there's a stair which's decorated with many flowers. It leads towards the first floor. The first floor exists of all kinds of wood. Except for another stairs which's completly made of stone, Leading towards the second floor where's only a mirror. In my dream, I haven't been on the second floor much. Probably because the feeling there was very scary. When you go back to the first floor, There's another room which's creepy. That's the bed room, The bed's decorated with red satin and flower petals, But the feeling there creeped me out because it felt like dead. (Like something dead was laying there)

I can remember much more, Though i don't know if you've enough information for now. Please help me out with this because it continues, And each dream gets more and more intense. Even now when i'm thinking of it i'm starting to sweat. O_O

Starwhisper

Postby Starwhisper » Tue Jun 29, 2010 7:31 am

Dreams of houses usually are dreams of ourselves on some level. E.g., if you dream that "your house" (which may not correspond to any waking-life house) is being broken into by threatening figures, you probably feel like you are under siege in your everyday life.

Your house dream has an element very much in common with mine: I also dream of houses made of old wood. The mirror and associated fear on the second floor are very interesting. The most straightforward interpretation is that there's something about looking within, or examining yourself, that is absolutely creeping you out. Then again, that might not be the case at all. Bear in mind the dual nature of mirrors: they show us ourselves, but on a flat level, a mere reflection rather than the whole being. They are also heavily associated with scrying and magic, including long-range attacks via magic. This may go towards the feeling you have of being watched (more on that in a bit).

The bedroom imagery is interesting as well. Bedrooms in dreams of course go to sexuality, but they also go to resting and letting go of control (e.g., sleeping), and rejuvenation. My first instinct on your dream is that something very deep in blocked in the way of rejuvenation--that feeling of being alive and in the moment.

Dreams never, ever present images--even the most horrific images--to mock us with a sense of helplessness. The fact that you have the creativity to dream these dreams and remember them already points toward your own inner power to resolve the emotional and psychic dissonances. Some of the symbols and what they mean to you personally may point the way to the resolution.

I think the terrifying mirror--which is so important to your subconscious that it gets its own floor!--might be your key to countering that feeling of something outside is peering in on you. I'd suggest getting a mirror that you like--that "feels right"--and using it in warding meditations. E.g., if these were my experiences, I might take my favorite mirror and hold it above my head and mentally focus on protection and project my most internally grounded, strongest "inner energy" onto it, pushing back anything negative. Basically, you're sending any bad outside vibes back to sender, whoever or whatever that may be. Frankly, you don't need to care where this stuff is originating from: if the package isn't welcome, refuse to sign for it.

gioistegek

Postby gioistegek » Tue Jun 29, 2010 8:00 am

Thank you so much Starwhisper for explaining my dream, (And making me laugh how you described the mirror xD)
I apreciate it that you took the time to help me out, I'll Try what you said. :D

Starwhisper

Postby Starwhisper » Wed Jun 30, 2010 4:13 pm

You are most welcome! Glad if anything I wrote may help! I'm a huge fan of dreams and dream journals; been keeping one of my own since 2002. If you are interested in reading more on dreams, please allow me to recommend the works of Dr. Gillian O'Holloway (http://www.lifetreks.com/). Her writings are geared towards modern dreams and dreamers; more so than some of the other books I've read.

gioistegek

Postby gioistegek » Wed Jun 30, 2010 5:43 pm

Thanks again for the advice and wow, That's been a long time that you've been writing down your dreams. Ö
I'll look in the book stores here if they know Dr. Gillian O'Holloway.
I'm not sure if they have books from her since i live in the netherlands. But i'll try to find some. :D

gioistegek

Postby gioistegek » Mon Jul 05, 2010 3:59 pm

Nope, Couldn't find any book of her. -.-
Even went to Amsterdam. (Capital of The netherlands) And they didn't had it there. :/


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