Same person in different dreams for a few years.

[Corleonis]

This person seems to come back to me in my dreams at least once a month for a few years now...She's a girl who looks about 16-ish,almost always dressed in black,black hairs.

She always comes randomly into my dreams in the weirdest circumstances,once she flew trough my basement window in a bathtub,other times I'd be waiting for the train at the station,she'd sit next to me and start ballooning up and floating (Think cartoons here) and some more weirdness like that. Every single time though she smiles at me and says "come with me" and I end up waking up...Before she'd just be there sometimes,now she seems to come more often or when I'm about to do something stupid in one of my dreams,she'd flash in front of me smiling and I'd stop doing whatever I'm doing....

Thoughts?

[Traumwandlerin]

Many thoughts ^^


But neithertheless, try to talk to her, ask her who she is. Either in a lucid dream, a guided dream or a trance.

[Seaspirit]

Hmmm... could be a guide of some sort.

I also agree, induce a lucid dream!

I have had a man come to me often in the past few months, not years though, and am wondering why also. His name is Divante.

[Corleonis]

Haven't tried the Lucid dream yet since well...I can't do it yet.

Anyways ~ Last night night I dreamed of her again,except this time she was blonde and wearing all white,she had the brightest smile yet. Just as I fell asleep I got this clear picture and then woke up in a "WOAH!" state.

Any advice on this...or lucid dreaming for that matter is appreciated.

I'm already keeping a dream journal but everytime I realise I'm dreaming,I just wake up. Any way to stop this?

Thanks

[Traumwandlerin]

I say it's a good sign she now wears white and was smiling.

A short guide to lucid dreaming:

Gather the symbols that occur with her in your dream. (Like when you only meet her in the woods, or there is always a bell or whatever). Then go all day long around looking for those signs. If you see one, believe, that you are actually dreaming and try to proof this as hard as you can. (Like in my dreams, if I stare hard enough at something, it will change its form). You could take her as a symbol.

Use this symbol to realize you are dreaming. And that you have a goal. And the goal is "asking her who she is, what she want you to know" or whatever is on your mind. Everytime you see any of your typical symbols, try to look for her and if you see anything that resembles her, ask it this questions.

If you do it intensively enough, the same thing will happen in your dream.

Also, lucid dreaming reduces dream remembrence in some, so make show you are already high in this area.