spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?

[Wolf-Tigress]

Hi.... soooo...... there is this girl I like, but I have no idea if she was hitting on me or just being friendly. Is there a spell or something that I can use to tell if she is gay/bi or straight? Or am I on my own at trying to figure this out? Haha Thanks for your help!

[Firebird]

have you tried consulting a pendulum?

[smogie_michele]

I would try working with a pendulum or working with tarrot/oracle cards. But I think the only sure fire way to find out would be to get to know her and see where things go from there

[Wolf-Tigress]

Haha alright I will try the pendulum. She has failed me yet. If not............... I guess I will find out eventually. lol

[Wolf-Tigress]

Haha well.... My pendulum says she is straight... and not attracted to females. Oh well ^_^ A new friend.

[Badgerstate]

Why dont you just get to know her or just ask her? Magick should only be an option when all else fails.

[Neila]

I don't know about spells and stuff, but I have some personal experience to share on this one.

I think you should bring up the conversation about LGBT issues with her. It's easy, say something about a gay friend, something you saw on tv or read... anything really, and observe her reactions. Try to discuss it a bit. If she's positive, come out to her. Then, if she's also bi/gay, there is a good chance that she comes out to you, too. Even if she's straight or simply not into you, if it looks like she's open-minded and won't freak out if you reveal your feelings. If she's acting like "ew, girls liking girls? noooo" then, I'm sorry, no hope.

[AdastraJunction]

Just ask, there is no harm in asking a persons sexual orientation. Spells and rituals are not a "cure-all" for everything, IMHO its an abuse to do so when practical means are still viable.

[Wolf-Tigress]

Thanks guys but it doesn't matter now. We were supposed to hang out and she never came, Seems to be a thing people like to do to me lol.
But thanks for the advice guys!

[Neila]

Oh, I'm sorry... trust me, I know it happens. -_-

[Wolf-Tigress]

To Neila: Unfortunately it does, but we mustn't dwell on such little things. There is so much more to the universe than that. ^_^

[Wolf-Tigress]

Well guess what! We hung out at the zoo and I mentioned my gay friend and then she took over in asking if I was into girls and saying she is too. So now we are dating and she is a wonderful person so far besides the whole first hanging out plans........... But yeah. Just wanted to share that. Thanks for all the advice guys.

[Firebird]

i guess that's why it's called breaking the ice...that can be hard sometimes