Help him make a swift decision

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Hello to all out there on this message board.

Firstly i would like to say thank you to all of you who have given me your invaluable advice and support, it has been of great help and guidance to me.

I was hoping that someone would know a way of making someone make a decision. I don't want to influence the decision in any way, just would like a swift outcome.

My boyfriend and i did break up, now he is away in scotland (so i have not seen him for 2 weeks),when i finished it he told me on the phone that he knew he wouldn't lose me, that i wasn't going anywhere because i loved him too much.

That was 2 days ago and i haven't heard from him since and i have not contacted him. I miss him a lot (as you would imagine), and i just want him to think long and hard about what he wants, about his future.

He's nearly 30 and its about time he took a long hard look at his life and decided what he really wanted. I'm fed up of him mucking me around. I want him to either really really want me and to make a go of things with me or to walk away for good and leave me alone.

Like i said, i don't want to influence the decision, but i do want a swift answer, one way or the other.

Thank you for any help and advice you offer.

Blessed Be x