Someone anyone help me please

[ron88]

I am a soldier stationed in Korea and my wife is living back home in Colorado going to school. Well after some prying on my part I found out she as met someone else but hasn't taken it to the next level. I love her with all my heart and have told her so. She is my everything and the only thing I have left in this world. Does anyone have or know of a spell to keep her love with me, or put her back in love with me. I have check everywhere and either I have to pay money or the items i need are really hard if not impossible to get over here. can some one do a spell for me or help me. I love her so much and the thought of losing her would kill me. Lets just say being in the military is hard on relationships. Have two other ex's to prove that theory. I have known her since she was 18 (30 Now). we seperated because I was in the army and she joined the navy. but 3 years ago we found one another again and got married Please help me. my e-mail is sctout70@yahoo.com or reach me on here.

[Elem]

Please read this thread: http://everythingunderthemoon.net/forum ... php?t=3550

The situation in there is rather similar to yours, and I'm only going to reiterate what I've said in that thread...

A spell is not a quick-fix. It can be used to support actions, but that is all. It shouldn't just be something you turn to out of desperation to fix a sour situation.

You're in this situation because of something. Either out of your control, or not. It certainly looks like you have some serious trust issues, if you'd even start prying around in the first place. I am in no way condoning her actions but, as I've said, something's caused this situation and it's up to you to work it out.

You can't just hide from the problem, or grab some 'quick-fix', off-the-internet, $100-a-go spell and expect it to make everything right again. Sometimes you just have to grit your teeth and face the problem head-on.

Elem

[stars]

How can you want to do that? Even if you managed to use a spell to make her love you (which I don't think is possible, but anyways) it would be so false. Don't you want someone to love you of their own free will? Controlling someone else's feelings or thoughts is the ultimate invasion.

[BlackenedRose*]

If spells fixed everything, don't you think all pagans would have a perfect life? Love spells are not the answer.

And don't waste your money on the $100-dollar-a-pop spells. You really can't buy love.

[EDIT: I gave the guy a communication spell over PM, because he asked me to.]

[hedge*]

*waves hello
Hey Em - good to see you hun

[BlackenedRose*]

Hey hedgie! Long time no speak. Assuming you're talking to me and not Elem, in which case I'll just shut up.

But yeah, get your butt on msn sometime. Lots to chat about!

[[Kristin]]

I would think that some healing ritual and positive energy would be in tall order here for Ron. Instead of raking this poor guy over the coals, I would have expected someone to come forth with some positive feedback for him.

Being in the military and stationed overseas.......he's in the middle of something he didn't opt for. I hope that you will send Ron all positive energy at this most difficult time. I can't even imagine what he must be going through. Far away from home and alone....I see someone reaching out. For those of you who have healing powers I would hope that you send Ron lots of positive energy and strength to be able to sort all of this out with his wife.
Blessings on you, Ron. I will hope for the best. And I hope that those who have healing powers will come forward and send positive energy your way.

[ron88]

Thanks for the positive energy. I really need that. along with a ear or two.

[Raven451]

IMO a Love Spell like that (obviously without her permission and used to control anothers Free Will ) is Grey if not bordering Dark Magic..There are Karmic results for everything you put out there and I'd be very very put off doing anything that would take someones Free Will from them..There are spells to find your true love , those are different because you are not taking from anothers free will just asking the universe to bring help you find yours..Those are different..And anyway..wouldn't you rather be with someone that you know truly loves you? It must be tough to be so far away from home and make you feel so helpless . You'd be amazed what a person can get through though. The human spirit is a mysterious thing but something tells me that even though it may be hard, even though you may feel like it is the worst thing you have ever went through , you will get through it if it comes to that . If it is meant to be it will happen if it isn't it won't..Thats my opinion anyway...I myself wouldn't want something that was not freely given.. Good Luck to you.

Bright Blessings,

Lori

[brokenxdreams]

Love spells don't work. But if they did, why would you want to use them? She wouldn't really love you, it would be the spell.

she as met someone else but hasn't taken it to the next level

Doesn't that mean that they're only friends?

But I wish the best of luck to you

-brokenxdreams-

[corrupted_beauty]

There are plenty of spells you could use. However, I am completely against them. Because of the three fold law, I think it is wrong to interfere with someone's personal choices. If you did cast a spell to keep her in love with you, it wouldn't be real. It would only be because of the magick. I think you have to just wait it out and wish for the best.

[HPCrowley]

What you need isn't a spell per se, but two things: meditation and communication. If she's "seeing" somebody else, she's just fulfilling a need. Communicate with each other about your needs, and whether or not you can fulfill hers in your current situation. If her and this person are just friends, then it may actually help your relationship. You need people to commune with while your away, and so does she. If she takes it to the other level, then it's her failing, not yours.