reconciliation spell

[devine_ishtar86]

hi guys!

i was wondering if anyone knew of a reconciliation spell. by this, I just want to make peace with someone I left on very bad terms with and i'm terrified to contact him. I really want us to apologize to each other though and move away from the anger and hate. does anyone know any thing that could help?

thank you

[lovespellsdontwork]

Out of personal experience and opinon, I wouldn't use a spell to help "bond" a relationship together. That tends to add fake-ness to the relationship. I think you should talk to this person and let them know what you think. Talking communication is very important too.

Although, if you insist on contacting this person in a different way, just try thinking about this person, or trying to visiting them in a dream. Sometimes when you think about someone, they call you out of the blue. That kind of thing. Focus on your energy and send off positive signals to them. You could also try sending a message in a bottle to "them."

Good luck! Connect your spirit.

~WaterEcho~

[Fireblade]

If you really want to cast a spell (which i agree you probably shouldnt) then there is one i have found below. Please think carefully before doing this.

What you will need: Two White Candles
Two Candle Holders
One Red Cloth
Three Onyx Stones
Three Rose Quartz Stones
One Velvet Pouch

Timing

This spell should be cast at dawn, as this is a time of new beginnings. You should perform the spell during the first dawn following a new moon. In casting the spell at this time of the month, when natural cycles are beginning again, you are creating a new start within the cycle of your relationship.

Location

This spell should be performed facing east, the direction of the sunrise. As the sun rises, the increasing light and warmth will mirror the warmth of your heart.

Procedure

Place the two white candles, in their holders, side by side on the red cloth. These candles represent you and your partner. Light the candles so that they burn in unison.

Sit quietly and meditate on the happiness your relationship has brought to you. Release your judgements, anger and preconceived ideas. Focus on what you want from your relationship and what you can give to it.

Six is the number of marriage, harmony, balance and equilibrium. For this reason, you will use six stones during this spell. Mystically, Onyx is used to help change habits. Rose Quartz is used for forgiveness and to open the heart.

Pick up the first stone. With the stone in your hand, say out loud one gift you have received from your relationship. Place this stone next to the burning candles.

Pick up the next stone. Say out loud one positive energy or quality that you want to bring to your relationship. Place the stone next to the burning candles.

One by one, pick up the next four stones. With each stone in hand, verbalize a different gift your relationship has given you or a new energy you want to bring to the relationship. Place the stones around the candles so that when each stone is placed, a perfect circle has been formed.

Allow the candles to burn down. Once the candles have burned out, place the six stones in a velvet pouch. Sleep with this pouch under your pillow until the next new moon.

[Minnie]

hi guys!

i was wondering if anyone knew of a reconciliation spell. by this, I just want to make peace with someone I left on very bad terms with and I'm terrified to contact him. I really want us to apologize to each other though and move away from the anger and hate. does anyone know any thing that could help?

thank you

I understand where you are coming from as I am in a similar situation. But I agree with others who have posted that a spell might not be the best way to handle the situation.

One thing I have used with great success is to ask my Guardian Angel to talk with the other person's Guardian Angel about the situation. I let the Angels work out the issues in their realm and trust that things on this plane will eventually reflect the work of the Angels.

In addition to letting the Angels do their work, I imagine the person I am trying to reconcile with in a pink bubble of light. I send this person nothing but loving thoughts, wish them all the best, and send them peace.
Then I let this person go and let the Universe do it's right work, trusting that things will work out as they should in their proper time.

You might want to try the things I've suggested and then when the timing feels right, you can try contacting this person and having a conversation with them if necessary.

I hope everything works out for you.

Blessings,
Minnie

[Vicki*]

Visualise all negative energy being replaced with positive energy that will reopen the lines of communication as and when the right time arrives.

[forgottenDuo]

I personally try not to use magic when the thing I want or need is something I am capable of obtaining easily without using it. My suggestion is to deal with this problem on your own, talk to the gentleman in question, or send him a card/letter if you are afraid of talking to him in person or on the phone. Just my thoughts.

Jen

[Lark]

hi guys!

i was wondering if anyone knew of a reconciliation spell. by this, I just want to make peace with someone I left on very bad terms with and i'm terrified to contact him. I really want us to apologize to each other though and move away from the anger and hate. does anyone know any thing that could help?

thank you

It isn't magic you need. You cannot force someone to make peace with you. If you do that, then you don't have real peace just the appearance of it.

The very best thing you can do in this situation is to call this person and simply apologize. Sure it's scarey. But think about it, what's the very worst thing that can happen? Sometimes the fear of doing something is a whole lot worse than the actual act could ever be.

If you're going to use magic at all in this situation, I would suggest using something to bolster your courage so you can do what needs to be done.

-Lark-

[Witch1693]

Magik is serious and should not be used for something that non-magik things can help.

Alex

[thatguy]

Magik is serious and should not be used for something that non-magik things can help.

Alex

I don't completely agree. I believe the most simple and straight-forward solution to a problem should always be investigated first; this a good habit to get into. For one thing, it requires less exertion, makes life easier on you, and makes it harder to make big mistakes. However, what's the point of studying magic if you're not going to use it?

cheers,

T. Guy.

[Exilus]

now are we talking love spells, or are we talkinga spell to enhance what is ment to come.

If you mean a true love spell I will say before you do anything so stupid think of that which you do.

Love Spell: It is an illusion, A rape of ones soul. You take away the freedom fo choice to condem it to a sad misrepresentation of desire, lust, and in the worst of cases obsession.


Enhacing what is ment to be: Tricky at best if it was ment to stay together, then it will. if not it will fall apart.

Sadly magic was not ment to be the answer to all, it was not ment to be self serving, and by using it for selfish reasons to bind or hold a lover to you, and force them against their will to feel things that they normally would not is bot wrong and one of the darkest purposes magic can be used.


I am srry for what is happeneding you your marriage and I wish you all the luck, but instead of searching for a magic spell to save it, you might better serve yourself and the one you love by trusting the gods. If they deem to allow it to continue, then it shall if they don'T then it wont. So my advice to you is meditate, alone and quiet and ask the gods to show you the path and then walk the path they show you, Sometimes when your heart is breaking the most powerful and bueatiful love that will last the test of time is right before you, but pain and dought hide it...lokks to deirdre and smiles...