Saving my marriage

[Trebor]

My wife and I are divorcing after 2 years, and she says its over when i still know she loves me, just as i do for her.

Its really stupid for her to be doing this, but I want to cast a spell that wipe all the negativity out of her.

I dont want to be selfish, but i want to bring her back to me and me back to her. We still talk but its much about nothing and I just want her not to be confused and to be open to me. I want her back and I want to cast a love spell on her and fill her with the positive thoughts of our marriage. We were once the best of friends long before we married.

Any help would be thanked.

[The Judge]

I can offer advice on such but I'm not much on handing out spells, especially those that while they may not be meant in a selfish way tend to become that way. The best thing you can do is talk to her, the small talk is a good thing, it means she is willing to talk to you about things you just need to get her to say what's on her mind. If she still loves you and the two of you can settle the issue then things will likely be fine, but I don't know either of you and that's about all the general advice I have on the subject. In one word"Communicate", this will help, I have seen it happen.

Blessed Be,
The Judge
Wiccan Soldier

[Trebor]

I know the 3 fold law...and i havent practiced the craft in almost 8 years, but i need something and im not desperate about it, but anything other than advice...would be better.

Its just every spell i have tried in years past has always blew up in my face. I need something that works, and i do not care about the 3 fold, i can except the consequences because i have nothing to lose

[Trebor]

I guess no one can help

[Vicki*]

I think people would be more willing to help if you'd open up a little to advice rather than expecting a spell which you already know isn't a good idea. Why exactly is your wife wanting a divorce?

[Moon_Stone]

Vicki has a good point, Trebor. It's not just a matter of you needing to be a bit more open, but we can't really offer you any meaningful help not knowing what's happening.

I can say, though, spells aren't the answer-- at least not a love spell. Making something love you is never the right thing to do- no matter how much you may hurt. That said, is she also into the craft? If so, you may be able to do a spell together, to bring yourselves closer. In my experience though, and I've been married, in a very tumultuous relationship, for almost 12 years (and yes, almost left once too), only the love shared between you two can keep the marriage together. I was packing my belongings, leaving that day, in fact... and just the smell of his shirt in the laundry dropped me to my knees in tears and helped me realize that no matter what we had to endure in our lives, our love was most important-- that, without that, nothing at all would be tolerable.

Encourage conversation with her, definitely-- there is something she needs or wants or feels she doesn't have, undoubtedly. Talk to her and try to understand-- work together toward a solution. Pledge that you will do everything possible to stay true to what she needs from you, and hope she does the same.

-As long as the love is present in both of you, I believe you both can work through this and come out stronger in the end. That's quite what happened between myself and my husband, and looking back on it, I'm glad for the experience.

They say sometimes love isn't enough, but I disagree-- anything can be overcome if you have love standing by you.

~Blessed Be~