This thread really made me think about WHY I avoid the Wiccan label. I suppose it is partially do to what others have mentioned regarding the association with religion. I also feel like my very superficial glance at Wicca doesn't award me enough of a right to use that term.
This thread also made me think about what Wicca is. It seems to mean different things to different people. I know people who consider solitaries not trained in a traditional coven, not truly Wiccan. Eclectic practice seems to be pretty normal, now. I don't think I know any two Wiccans (outside of the same coven) who view the divine the same. I know Wiccans that don't even follow the rede. I know Christian Wiccans, and Wiccans who don't believe you can be a Christian and Wiccan. So what IS Wicca? (I just want to add the disclaimer: none of the above is my personal idea of what Wicca is.)
In terms of the 8 holidays- We follow the wheel of the year in my tradition, too. A lot of the ceremonial ideas between my tradition and Gardnerian Wicca, though very different NOW, can probably be traced back to similar sources. I know my tradition got a lot of ideas from what Gardner was doing. But it's not Wicca.
I'm not old enough to comment on this seriously, so I put it out there for the veterans among us: do you think this question would have much different answers were it asked 30 years ago? When Wicca was less "evolved" (fewer eclectic practitioners)? I feel like the traditionally trained Wiccans of the Gardnerian, Alexandrian, etc. variety would have a few solid answers as to what is and is not Wicca. When most information was oathbound, before we had authors writing for the "mainstream", before we had so many "uninitiated" (by traditional covens). Wicca seems to have changed so much in the past few decades (as it should, in my opinion), to be more inclusive to the point where it seems very easy to qualify under its umbrella.
Sorry for my scatterbrained post
