
This is kind of silly, but please do read...
This is kind of silly, but please do read...
I fell in lvoe with an Anime character and... i don't want to let go. i no its not real but then i feel its real. i just cant let him go. i lvoed him so much... ive thought of dying to end my pain. i overdosed once and end up in mental hospital even tho im not mental. iono... but pplz just dun undersatnd me. i fall in lvoe with something dat is not real. its really hurting me because wen i think bout it, i want to die... i want to be with him no matter what... and so i was wondering is there any such spell to help me get to be with him. im searching but then there seems to be no answers and yet im not giving up yet. as long as i believe, there should be a way. i rele love him no matter how much pplz called em crazy. ive loved him for... lets see. since 7th to 8th grade and now im a senior so that makes it almost 6 yrs. n yet i have never dated anyone bcuz i loved him truly from deep within my heart that no matter how good/handsome any human being is, that person is never comparable to my anime crush. i am speaking the truth. i really loved him... many other anime are better looking than him but then he attracts me. he is the one to introduce me to anime. he will always be the 1st n last love of me... anyone... can anyone help me?! 

I wish so much I could put in words what I want to convey to you... I can just say a few things:
I know what it's like to live with that kind of burden on your shoulders. And when I say that, I am not in any way joking or being sarcastic. many, many people know, because many people are in the same place you are. They just don't have the courage to say it, like you do. You're not alone.
Suicide is a coward's way out. I've learned from personal experience... But I won't go into detail, this is about you and not me. No matter what's happening to you, there's always some way to escape... And suicide should be your very last option. Or even better, not an option at all.
Spells can't control what you feel. Hearts are constantly broken, mended, and broken again. I still have one left over from a past life, even. One in this one, too. It'll always ache, I know, even more so because you know he isn't real, but it'll go away with time. I don't know of any spell that can patch a heart together, I only know of time working. The love you have for him will always be there, wether he be with you or not, so you simply have to wait for it to wear off. Everyone has a soulmate-even if you think not- and he simply doesn't have one for you to be connected to.
And my actually advice... Spend time with more people, go out more, and stay away from anime of any kind for a while. The same thing you'd do if a guy had broken up with you, and you were hurt and angry. Cry and cry and get him the heck out of your heart.... It works. If it doesn't get him out... It at least pushes him to the very farthest corner of your mind.
(Now for my mean comment: stop using shorthand, and PLEASE learn to use correct capitalization, punctuation, and grammar. Most people tend to ignore a post all together if it's messy like this.)
My heart goes out to you, because I know the ache of falling in love with a character and not a soul. These words come to you with my heart attatched, and I will deffinately be sending good energy your way, my friend.
-From one fellow anime-guy-lover to another... If he can't say "I love you", and put his heart and complete love into it... He's not worth your time. You can do better, girl! [hugs tight]
I know what it's like to live with that kind of burden on your shoulders. And when I say that, I am not in any way joking or being sarcastic. many, many people know, because many people are in the same place you are. They just don't have the courage to say it, like you do. You're not alone.
Suicide is a coward's way out. I've learned from personal experience... But I won't go into detail, this is about you and not me. No matter what's happening to you, there's always some way to escape... And suicide should be your very last option. Or even better, not an option at all.
Spells can't control what you feel. Hearts are constantly broken, mended, and broken again. I still have one left over from a past life, even. One in this one, too. It'll always ache, I know, even more so because you know he isn't real, but it'll go away with time. I don't know of any spell that can patch a heart together, I only know of time working. The love you have for him will always be there, wether he be with you or not, so you simply have to wait for it to wear off. Everyone has a soulmate-even if you think not- and he simply doesn't have one for you to be connected to.
And my actually advice... Spend time with more people, go out more, and stay away from anime of any kind for a while. The same thing you'd do if a guy had broken up with you, and you were hurt and angry. Cry and cry and get him the heck out of your heart.... It works. If it doesn't get him out... It at least pushes him to the very farthest corner of your mind.
(Now for my mean comment: stop using shorthand, and PLEASE learn to use correct capitalization, punctuation, and grammar. Most people tend to ignore a post all together if it's messy like this.)
My heart goes out to you, because I know the ache of falling in love with a character and not a soul. These words come to you with my heart attatched, and I will deffinately be sending good energy your way, my friend.
-From one fellow anime-guy-lover to another... If he can't say "I love you", and put his heart and complete love into it... He's not worth your time. You can do better, girl! [hugs tight]
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Hi Nerine 
I know something you could do. Sit down, quietly, a nice cup of warm cocoa with vanilla/cinamon, lighting a candle and read your favorite manga of him (or watch your favourite episode). Embrace how deeply you love him, with everything you love of him. Like his voice, how brave he ist and still nice, how beautiful his hair looks, everything. Did you ever draw him? When you feel at ease with drawing him, draw him. Put all your love into this picture. When you don't want to draw just close your eyes and visualize him. Than write a love letter and declare what all the things are why you love him. Write everything down. "I'm deeply in love with you, I love everything about you, like the ne time, when you did.. this was just so cute and my heart beated". Take your time.
And now know what, he is out there. Not drawed of course but in flesh and blood. You would still love him, when he is real, wouldn't you? Even though characters are just fictional somehow there is always one who is just like this character. So, he is out there, in flesh and blood. With all those characteristics you wrote down and love in him. Probably he cut his hair, but you would still love him then, wouldn't you? Probably he had experienced something you haven't read about or experienced not the things you read, but you know, these stories are fictional, but out there is still the person you love who would react just as this character in given circumstances. And this is what you love about him, his character, isn't it? And probably the looks, and looks is also important.
So, he is out there
You just haven't met him, or were afraid of seeing that he is actually out there. Risk it, find him 
Do the ritual always when it hurts and you are too deeply in love with him. Afterwards you should feel still in love but motivated to find him in real life. Be sure to know, that love will strike when you meet him and be open to meet him. Probably you've already met him but weren't open.
In addition: Think about what girls he like. What would be important to him. Will he fall in love with a broken one on medication who is sucidal? (Hopefully not, I know there are such animes :/ ). Try to think what he likes, does he like a girl who is trong and confident? Who enjoys life? Who has a life despite of him? Reread the mangas and think about it.
More additin: Googled you nick, I think I know who you mean. He looks cute and sounds really nice. I think you've got a high chance of actually meeting his real life character somewhere. But I guess Nerine ended without him? So why not be Sia?

I know something you could do. Sit down, quietly, a nice cup of warm cocoa with vanilla/cinamon, lighting a candle and read your favorite manga of him (or watch your favourite episode). Embrace how deeply you love him, with everything you love of him. Like his voice, how brave he ist and still nice, how beautiful his hair looks, everything. Did you ever draw him? When you feel at ease with drawing him, draw him. Put all your love into this picture. When you don't want to draw just close your eyes and visualize him. Than write a love letter and declare what all the things are why you love him. Write everything down. "I'm deeply in love with you, I love everything about you, like the ne time, when you did.. this was just so cute and my heart beated". Take your time.
And now know what, he is out there. Not drawed of course but in flesh and blood. You would still love him, when he is real, wouldn't you? Even though characters are just fictional somehow there is always one who is just like this character. So, he is out there, in flesh and blood. With all those characteristics you wrote down and love in him. Probably he cut his hair, but you would still love him then, wouldn't you? Probably he had experienced something you haven't read about or experienced not the things you read, but you know, these stories are fictional, but out there is still the person you love who would react just as this character in given circumstances. And this is what you love about him, his character, isn't it? And probably the looks, and looks is also important.
So, he is out there


Do the ritual always when it hurts and you are too deeply in love with him. Afterwards you should feel still in love but motivated to find him in real life. Be sure to know, that love will strike when you meet him and be open to meet him. Probably you've already met him but weren't open.
In addition: Think about what girls he like. What would be important to him. Will he fall in love with a broken one on medication who is sucidal? (Hopefully not, I know there are such animes :/ ). Try to think what he likes, does he like a girl who is trong and confident? Who enjoys life? Who has a life despite of him? Reread the mangas and think about it.
More additin: Googled you nick, I think I know who you mean. He looks cute and sounds really nice. I think you've got a high chance of actually meeting his real life character somewhere. But I guess Nerine ended without him? So why not be Sia?
I would not know of any spells, but if you seek a support group, there is a board called "Animated Life." It is a place for people who have such an admiration for an animated character, the character seems more real than reality itself. It has been around ten years since I went to it and was pleasantly suprised to still see it going strong.
http://www.dragonfare.com/forums/
http://www.dragonfare.com/forums/
It's like walking down an empty street, listening to your own footsteps. But all you have to do is knock on any door and say, "If you'll let me in, I'll live the way you want me to live. And I'll think the way you want me to think." And all the blinds will go up, and all the doors will open, and you'll never feel lonely. Ever again.
~Henry Drummond, "Inherit the Wind" (1960)
~Henry Drummond, "Inherit the Wind" (1960)
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