Cursed Jewelry?

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Lux
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Cursed Jewelry?

Postby Lux » Wed Dec 02, 2015 4:34 pm

I have this black cat necklace that I love, but every time I wear it, there seems to be a cloud of resentment that gets generated around me. Not always at me, but always affecting people in the vicinity.

I've had this necklace for around 10 years, it was bought for me by my best friend's mother. My best friend was there when her mother bought me the necklace on a whim and didn't buy her anything. I felt quite bad because I realized immediately she resented me at that moment. We had just finished a little argument, she had asserted her parents liked me more than they liked her, which was really untrue. Ever since the necklace has been really tough to wear.

Is the necklace cursed? I feel like it is but I really need alternate opinions.

If it is cursed what is a good way to deal with it? I've tried purifying the necklace with crystals, letting it sit in salt or blessed water but the effect only lasts a little while.

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Re: Cursed Jewelry?

Postby YanaKhan » Wed Dec 02, 2015 4:52 pm

I wouldn't wear the necklace if I were you. Apparently not only your friend gave the necklace negative energy (I wouldn't necessarily call it curse), but you may have also added to it by feeling guilty.
I don't really know what cleansing to suggest, except maybe trying to sage it. But to be fair, I think you should give it to your friend.
I own a ring, which was a gift from my ex boyfriend, that I have tried to get rid of for ages and it never gets lost and always comes back to me. And I really mean it - I tried giving it to someone, but they forgot it in my bathroom and then left to live in another country and we haven't met since then. My daughter liked it, I gave it to her, she said she lost it and then found it. I threw it away and my father in law found it in the garage (this one is still a mistery to me). Whenever I wear the ring, my luck is down, I am nauseous and generally feel bad, so I do not wear it.

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Re: Cursed Jewelry?

Postby Aesiryth » Wed Dec 02, 2015 6:04 pm

Aha! And an alternative opinion you shall get, Saffron. I think that instead of the necklace actually being "cursed" by someone else, you are the one "cursing" it. You said previously "I felt quite bad because I realized immediately she resented me at that moment." You realized resentment from her before realizing resentment coming from the necklace. Our minds work by relating etc. to etc. You feel bad about the encounter and therefore relate the necklace that your friend gave you to the resentment she also showed you. Making you feel resented whenever you wear the necklace. Now, this is just my opinion, I'm not saying I'm right or this is the right answer, but think of it as a possibility. Like YanaKhan said, it could be infusing the negative energy from your friend into itself.

My solution would be to put your past behind you and let it eat your dust. Soon enough it will get buried. Once it is, wear the necklace freely or don't. Destroy it or keep it. Loath it or love it. It's completely up to you, but it's also your choice whether to keep suffering or not.

Hope this helped, I'm out. Blessed be!
-Aesiryth

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Re: Cursed Jewelry?

Postby Lux » Thu Dec 03, 2015 9:43 am

Thank you for the advice from both of you, This really put it into perspective for me. I do remind myself of that guilt every time I see it and it might be best that I either attribute the necklace to something more positive or just let it rest in peace.

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Re: Cursed Jewelry?

Postby Lasiah » Thu Dec 17, 2015 3:44 pm

Having a sensitive conscience is good, but it's also burdensome, maybe a good idea would be to have a few simple golden rules to hold your conscience by and remind it that as long as you follow that then there is no reason to feel guilt. Like, treat others as you'd like to be treated.


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