To do another spell or leave it be?

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Zombiedaisy
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To do another spell or leave it be?

Postby Zombiedaisy » Tue Jul 05, 2016 9:56 pm

I hope I'm putting this in the right place.

A very dear person and I had lost contact with one another because of our own stubbornness. Shortly after we had stopped talking, they reached out to me. I was kinda rude, so in return, so where they. A few months went by and I attempted to reach out, but was ignored.... On several occasions. So I left it alone. But I've still missed them dearly.

Anyways,

I've been meditating and trying to just work through my own emotional state over the whole situation and person. I gave up on trying to reach out. It was going on deafened ears but I really wanted a sense of either reunion and us being friends again (because they were so dear to me) or just closure so I could continue to emotionally heal. For a while I had dreams on a nightly basis about this person. It was almost haunting. They say when you continuously dream of someone like that they are thinking of you... maybe it was so. So I continued to meditate on the subject, growing my own spiritual journey to heal and not too long ago, made a dream pillow in hopes of them dreaming of me and us being able to work through what was wrong. Even if it meant we just got closure and both could move on and not have hurt feelings towards one another.

Yesterday I just had a strong sense I needed to reach out... just do it and be done with it. So I sent a simple text on just an urge... an hour later, I got a reply... to the point they said they had been thinking of me and we even went as far as made plans to meet in a few nights. I thought maybe it was a fluke or they were just messing with me, but today they text me again asking if we were still on and i said I was excited and they said so where they. We're also supposed to talk on the phone tonight smiley_dance

This is like night and day compared to how things were. Now my question is, is there anything I could do in the mean time to hopefully nudge things in a positive direction for this weekend or should I let what Ive already done just do what its doing and continue meditating on it and just be positive? I see so many different spells, etc and its hard to say what would be a good one. A love spell, some type of friendship spell, something... I dont know. We meet in two nights and nothing Im finding or know personally seem to fit. Maybe a simple candle spell?

Any insight would be amazing. loveface

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Re: To do another spell or leave it be?

Postby Oakheart » Wed Jul 06, 2016 4:46 am

I'm glad you and your friend agreed to meet up. Sometimes people just need a few months to heal. Anyways, I might suggest burning a pink candle on Friday (since it is the day associated with Venus). Dress the candle with an appropriate oil if you have one; rose or lavender oil work great. Stare into the flame for several minutes (10 minutes is usually appropriate) while visualizing your friendship being restored. Let the candle burn all the way down.
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