emptiness

[schoolgirl]

Hi! My boyfriend of 11 months broke up with me about five weeks ago. I am trying to deal with it the best I can. I have most recently started talking to a counselor.
But, I feel such a bond to this man. We are 36/35 respectively and met through friends. We have a great deal in common but also live four hours from each other. I went out to visit him mostly, due to work schedules but he came to see me too.
He doesn't want marriage or kids and I am on the same page. We have talked almost every day since breaking up. I am heartbroken and want to get back together with him but he keeps making excuses on why we shouldn't and why I deserve more and better.
I haven't dated a whole lot but really feel this man is the one for me. I don't know what else to do but to give him the time and space he needs to think things through as well as for myself.
I am a scorpio, he's a capricorn. I so much want this relationship to work in some fashion.
He came to my place, which I thought was for a visit but then it turned into me opening the door to my apartment and him looking terrible. After asking what was wrong he just stated, I think we should break up. I was in complete shock. It's been a mess ever since.
Is there anything I can do to bring us back together? I feel so lost. I need to be more than this man's friend. I want to be with him.

Thanks!

[[Silver Dove]]

Hi Schoolgirl,

I feel it for you and I understand that you are hurting....but the best thing to do is to let him go and be his friend........ and if it is really meant to be, than the cosmos will work together to bring you both back together when the time is right for you....if not than it was never meant to be. There a saying in my country, " Let your love fly, let it fly high. If it comes back it was yours to keep, if not than it was not meant to be."
I know it is easier said than done, but your fate might have better plans for you that you may be unaware of. I do believe that there is a soulmate out there for each of us on this earth....so even though it might not be this guy for you, keep hope that you will find yours. And when you will find him, nothing in the world will come in the way of your union. As a matter of fact the cosmos will find a way to unite you (though the events that take place may not be pleasent).....keep the flame of hope burning in your heart and have faith.

[schoolgirl]

Thanks, Silver Dove for commenting on my thoughts.

I do have to say that I've been to three psychics within the last 6 months, one prior to our break up and two since. They all said that we were meant to be together and in a long term relationship.

My thoughts have been to wait for him until he was ready but how long is that going to be. I am a very patient person. I truly love this man. Am I crazy to wait for him, I'm not sure.

But I will take your advice into account.

Sincerely,

Schoolgirl

[sea witch]

Hi schoolgirl!

This may seem strange as I'm posting on a forum for people who understand psychic work...but please be careful. Psychics are human, and us humans don't always see as clearly as we want to.

I am trying to encourage you to find the core of strength which is in YOU. In that amazing heart of yours lies all the wisdom you need. Look deeper.

There is nothing quite as sweet as a new beginning...
Blessed Be
SW

[blssdpoet]

Hello Schoolgirl,

I know exactly how you are feeling, but ask yourself how you would feel if you had no contact with this man at all?

There are no boundaries in Love, and some people cannot handle the classifications that others need to put it in. What I am trying to say is this: If friendship is all he can give you at this point, be thankful. Be his best friend who he turns to for everything, because that is the foundation of every successful relationship. It is a true blessing to be able to Love with out expectations and if your relationship is meant to be more then that, it will find it's way.

Best Wishes to you.

[blssdpoet]

Hello Schoolgirl,

I know exactly how you are feeling, but ask yourself how you would feel if you had no contact with this man at all?

There are no boundaries in Love, and some people cannot handle the classifications that others need to put it in. What I am trying to say is this: If friendship is all he can give you at this point, be thankful. Be his best friend who he turns to for everything, because that is the foundation of every successful relationship. It is a true blessing to be able to Love with out expectations and if your relationship is meant to be more then that, it will find it's way.

Best Wishes to you.